Found your girl would rather be messaging her mates, binging a series, getting an early night instead of getting it on? Relax it happens to the best of us. It doesn’t mean you’re bad in bed or that her eyes are elsewhere, with relationships there always comes a time when things get a bit samey. Routine isn’t sexy and even if you’re both tired after work, and a night of ordering pizza and watching ten episodes of a well rated Netflix series, before falling asleep in your uniform with garlic herb dip in your beard sounds just fine, it could be the start to the end.
Worry not, friend; there’s still time to make sure she sees you as a Casanova, rather than a Casasofa. First off, think about your bedroom- is it a sensual boudoir or a shit tip? You need to set a mood, light a candle, wash your sheets, buy new sheets, dirty mugs, plates?- get rid of them. Now you’re ready.
Be open with your partner; don’t wait until you’re both half asleep before suggesting you head to the bedroom. Tell her you want to try something new, that you want to give her the best orgasm of her life. And fear not, you won’t be exaggerating. If you follow these erotic massage tips correctly you’re girl will be as wet as a dish cloth.
Once you’ve got your girl running to the bedroom, get out your massaging oils. You can purchase aromatic oils in body care shops; health food shops that kind of thing- who knows maybe even in pound land (they sell everything). If you really wanna impress her, I’d recommend getting your hands on some nuru gel. Nuru gel is the crème de la crème of massage oils and is a go to in any decent erotic massage parlour. Nuru gels main ingredient is Nori seaweed, a type of Japanese seaweed which translates to mean ‘slippery’. If you can get your hands on this you’re in for a real good time.
Take your oil or gel and with just a little bit at first, rub it (using the palms) along her shoulders, upper back, and lower back. Once her skin is nicely oiled apply slight pressure with your hands on any knots you can find, moving your thumbs in a rotating fashion, directly target these pressure points. You will know whether to increase or decrease your pressure depending on your girls’ response.
Once you have got rid of the knots she will be in a state of relaxed bliss, this will make her skin more sensitive to your touch. Apply more oil to her body, rubbing it all over now, try and be as light as you can with your touch, be heavy handed and she may tense up again. Explore her body with your hands, move over her quickly, slowly, use your whole palm, a few fingers or the tip of one. Basically see what she reacts best too, every girl is different, this is a chance to learn what your girl likes.
Once you have found and mastered the best technique, she will be writhing around; your touch will be electric. Now is your time to have some fun; rub some more oil on your chest and wherever else you’d like to try, turn your girl around and then lower yourself so that your skin is touching.
Enjoy the sensation of your oiled bod coming into contact with her boobs; massage them with your hands. Kiss her, this is the time to be intimate and initiate sex. By this point your girl should be screaming for it.
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